People love to look down on reality television. Don’t get me wrong, I used to as well — until I actually began watching it. I started with Vanderpump Rules (2013) and slowly entered into the world of The Real Housewives (2010). I have to say, it is not a shallow and vapid form of entertainment like I thought it was before. These shows explore a lot of hard topics in life including suicide, divorce, spousal abuse, racism, bankruptcy, infidelity, and sexual assault. Moreover, I’ve learned a lot from the women who are featured on this show. I’ve never seen women be so direct and honest about their feelings, and if they aren’t, fans and cast members know. The Real Housewives gives us a lesson in vulnerability and female friendships, something I’m trying to cultivate in my own life. So before you knock these shows as trash, give them a try — you might be pleasantly surprised (or at least thoroughly entertained).
Darien Johnsen is a UFV alumni who obtained her Bachelor of Arts degree with double extended minors in Global Development Studies and Sociology in 2020. She started writing for The Cascade in 2018, taking on the role of features editor shortly after. She’s passionate about justice, sustainable development, and education.